Monday, September 17, 2007

dont be that fat naked guy

You remember that guy who won the first Survivor T.V. show?

His name is Richard Hatch, but most people refer to him as 'That Fat Naked Guy from Survivor'.

Anyway, he's at risk of losing it all the cash he won.
He's been lying to the IRS, he's blaming the T.V. studio, and now he'll be lucky if he doesn't end up in prison.
It's pretty sad, but I can't say I'm surprised.
After all, studies on lottery winners show that as soon as they rake in the dough, they start acting nuts until they eventually blow the whole wad. They don't have the experience to be comfortable with kind of money, and so they unconsciously sabotage it in all sorts of ways.

That's what's happened to the fat naked guy.

He wasn't prepared for it, so he's been having trouble holding on to it.
Now, before you decide this has nothing to do with women, you should ask yourself a simple question... If the average Joe can't keep his paws around something as simple as a pile of dough, how the heck is he going to hold on to a hot woman?

The answer is ... not very well.

The truth is, you'll probably 'get lucky' at least once in your life.

Somehow, someway, you'll have a truly amazing woman pursue you.
Now, I'm not talking about a 'cute girl' -

I'm talking about an amazing woman that's way out of your league, if you know what I mean.

Unfortunately, if you're not prepared, you stand to lose that relationship and maybe a whole lot more.

You'll be like the fat naked guy - or any average lottery winner - and you'll start acting a little weird.
Deep down you'll know that you got 'lucky' with this girl, and that you don't have the experience to hold on to her.
You'll either start clinging onto her like a life-vest or push her away with downright rude behavior. After she comes to her senses and leaves you, you'll blame her for 'dumping' you - or you'll kid yourself into thinking she never liked you in the first place.

If this has happened to you or a friend, then you know what I am talking about. If not then I can tell you it's definitely something you want to avoid.

Seriously, the impact of losing a women this way can set you back light-years in terms of self-esteem, confidence, and your ability to make real connections with women.

I had a good friend go through this several years ago, and his confidence was so shattered it took months to get him over his approach anxiety.

I bring this up because the most important skills for KEEPING a woman are the *same* ones that attract them in the first place.

And it's important you understand this, so that when the right one comes along you'll be able to handle her and keep her around. After all, if you're attracting women all the time , then you will quickly gain the experience you need to keep a women around for good - if and when you choose to.

It's okay to be fat, even naked, just make sure you are prepared for the good things that come to you in life.

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